Regardless of personality type, men are happiest when allowed to discover love at their own pace.
Opt for something that gives you both an easy out, like lunch or a drink.That higher sex drive translates, among other things, into being more direct with men.The more mature women may be interested in dating a younger guy out of sheer curiosity of what it feels like dating someone younger, and also because usually younger guys are more “agile,” active, energetic.Sometimes horror stories about them can make for fun discussion, but don't ever bring your ex into the conversation if it's not called for.When I hear about a girl's man, I'm assuming we probably shouldn't be on that date period.Over the years several women have written me to tell me reading this site has helped them understand the actions of a shy guy they were pursuing.With that in mind I thought I'd try to be even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what it's like to be a man who's really shy and inexperienced with women.If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go." —Steve M."Girls should try to avoid pre-judging before a first date.Whether it's someone you're meeting online or it's someone your friends know, aim to drop the things you know about them and start fresh.Don't ask your friends to tell you everything they can because you can end up with a tainted view of what to expect.Half the fun of going out is getting to know someone new, so allow yourself to let that happen organically." —Oliver B."Please don't compare us to your exes—out loud or even in your head.