You brought up a few points that I want to touch on.First, let’s talk about the whole “strong woman” / “alpha female” topic.The sad part of this is that some people don’t even realize that they’re coming off this way.More often than not, these people have a big heart and are very kind, but their strong personality makes them come off as aggressive or even rude.To be honest, it either sparks an anger inside of you (that you can’t keep silent about), or it makes you want to walk away without saying a word.This might be because most strong-willed people are also highly educated.
I want my approach to appear to be well-timed, and I don't like it when I feel like I'm interrupting.Recently, at a wedding, I witnessed a dance floor with a friend who is an ecologist.In the middle of this dance floor, a girl approached a guy, legs slightly spread, while slapping her thighs with the back of her hands while looking him in the eye.If she's super-hot, sometimes I assume I have no chance or I'm just plain intimidated. This, by the way, is the best reason for your ego why guys aren't approaching: "I'm just so hot I'm intimidating." UNATTRACTIVE APPEARANCE One night, we were out and a girl intermittently stood up on the seat of her booth and did stripper-type dances. It's tough to approach a whirling dervish and no one could take her seriously.And sometimes the "too drunk" girl gets approached by guys who are interested in one thing only.Your career may have had a few hiccups, and your relationships are trademarked by tension, but your independent way of thinking isn’t wrong- it just rubs some people the wrong way.You might have noticed that people are cautious when you approach, or when they see you, they give a quick hello, smile, and abruptly leave.If you’ve ever been told you have a strong personality, or if you feel like people see you as ‘intimidating’, then this article is for you. To understand that of any person, his whole life, from birth, must be reviewed. Everything that ever happened to us is an ingredient.” It’s true.Our experiences in life mold us into the people we are. As I said, I'm not into the whole online dating thing. Dean: I used Tinder for a nanosecond, to see what all the fuss was about.