For instance, I knew my pal Jake Stein for more than a year before we even started dating.
Having got out of a pretty long relationship, I was used to having sex several times a week..now its been 7 months now without sex. Regardless, I recently decided I'm not going to have sex with any new guy until I've been dating him Why? I've waited too long to have sex--and I've done it too soon. As I think I've mentioned, I didn't lose my virginity till I was TWENTY-EIGHT YEARS OLD--which is an example of waiting a little too long.I was waiting to find the one true love of my life, so I told myself.That kind of thing might work out well in certain Amish, Hasidic or Muslim communities, but I run with a crowd that is, dare I say, a little more hip than that.And if I had to do it all over again, I'd have gotten the whole virginity thing out of the way A LOT SOONER.Do you make any allowances for a person's special circumstances? I'd have to do all the options for gay and straight and bi and male and female and transsexual and frankly I can't be bothered.You can mention that stuff if you want, but I for one don't intend to insist. I mean how long is too long from the individual poster's point of view. Having got out of a pretty long relationship, I was used to having sex several times a week..now its been 7 months now without sex. It's completely normal that you guys haven't had sex yet, and if what you really want, find a gentle way to talk to her about it. If she wants to take it slow and maybe you're not into that, you should just talk about it.Also, I reported my OP to the mods because I put "committed" in the subject line when I meant "dating" and was unable to change it.If I had no further information, and assuming that we were seeing each other regularly (at least once a week), I'd find it really odd to wait 3 months. If the potential partner had a temporary medical condition preventing it, and I really liked him, I'd wait it out.