Or you’re just way over confident in your ability to hide your indiscretion.
What’s even more revealing, after a look at the top 100 passwords used on the Ashley Madison site, most of the people must not have been too concerned about their privacy. If you have that much trouble remembering your password that you have to resort to using one of those options, you probably shouldn’t attempt juggling the multiple girls you’re dating.
Seeing the other side of the coin showed me that letting the girls you’re dating see other guys was not only OK, but actually had a lot of benefits.
♦◊♦Dear I’m Not a Heart-breaker Type, As I’ve referenced time and time again, there are people who sign up to be on reality TV show where they are one of many people dating one guy.
We share a number of interests (though different common interests with each woman), and each are attractive, age-appropriate, and successful professionally.
By the end of this week I will have had dinner with each of them 3 times (no sex yet, as I would want that in the context of a more committed situation), in addition to getting-to-know-you phone calls and emails with each of them proposing activities we could do in the future of our relationship -- meaning that they are both open to a relationship.
Partly because I was terrified of losing her, but also because I wanted to see just how it would play out.
I’d spent all my time up until that point in exclusive, monogamous relationships and thought that was the way to go.