I have only kissed him and he’s been very understanding, I want to take it slowly with him, but I am living every moment with fear (not to see him, that he may be with someone else, that he is not telling me the truth, that he doesn’t want me (even if he tells me and shows me the opposite).I like him very much and would like to try to keep this one and become intimate eventually on a healthy level. I have been in constant pain for the past year now and I want to get back to who I was before; A very confident, self-sufficient and happy woman.Scientists say ROCD is a form of obsessive compulsive disorder - a condition that can bring unwanted thoughts or worries, and repetitive behaviors that are carried out to address those worries, usually to no avail.With ROCD, obsessions usually fit into one of two categories: Questioning whether you love your partner, or questioning whether your partner loves you, said Steven Brodsky, a psychologist and clinical director who has treated patients with ROCD.Register for Free and Make Dating a Bit Less Complicated and Much, Much More Fun!O.k todays post is something someone wanted me to post on.
I know you yourself have suffered these and your bit in your book is amazing, but without being nosy could you elaborate a little more on what you suffered. It is the memory of having these thoughts and the fear of them and trying not to think them that is keeping me thinking them!
For example, one of Doron's patients said that although he loved the woman he was in a relationship with, he couldn't stop thinking about whether he might be happier with women he saw on the street, or on Facebook.
It's normal to have some of these thoughts in relationships from time to time, Brodsky said, but a person is considered to have a disorder if the thoughts impair everyday life, such as the ability to do his or her job.
Firstly anxiety is excess adrenalin, add this to bad nerves and this is why we feel anxious.
Now anxiety/adrenalin needs a release, do you ever feel fidgety, like you cannot stand still?