There are many ways to help a relationship grow, but nothing beats communication, especially in a new relationship.
And perfect communication always starts with happy conversations.
It's a chance to connect on a quieter, more intimate level.1. What do you think is the best piece of music ever written? What event or activity in the next 6 months are you looking forward to more than anything else? If you could be the spokesperson for any product on the market, what product would you choose and why? If you could have any book instantly memorized from cover to cover, which book would you choose and why? If we were to sell our home when we retire and go live on a farm, what is the one chore that you would definitely NOT want to do? What, in your opinion is your most endearing quality? A few of the questions featured above were adapted from one of my favorite conversation-starting tools, The Chat Pack.
One of the first things I noticed about you when we first met was... I laugh every time I think about that time when we... What do you think our home will look like when we're in our 70s? If I didn’t have you in my life, I think the one thing that I’d be most afraid of is... Where was your favorite hiding spot when you were a kid? When we get to our 50th wedding anniversary, we should... The thing I love most about your Mom (or Dad, or sister) is... I never would have learned how to..I hadn’t met you. If we were a musical group, what would we call ourselves? What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever received in life? If you had to come up with a name for a designer paint color in the same shade as my eyes, what would you call it? What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever received in life? If you had to come up with a name for a designer paint color in the same shade as my eyes, what would you call it? If we inspired a rom-com movie, what would the title of the film be and who would play us on the big screen? What do you think is the one thing that we have in our home that says, “We were made for each other! It's a deck of pocket-sized cards with fun and playful questions and conversations starters.
Everyone loves to laugh, and talking about the things that make you both fall into a fit—cheesy pickup lines, dad jokes, a particular You Tube flick—gets the conversation flowing... Lots of laughter on a first date is a great sign, Jones says.
Musicians listen to other musicians to get inspired and uncover new songs waiting to be heard.
Although you probably should not use these deep conversation starters for a first date, they work well to find out more about a person.
The answers can reveal some hidden facts and lead to a deeper relationship.
Pick carefully, however, as some may mean the end of a beautiful relationship.
After a couple has been married for a while, intimacy can be lost.