Pretty soon, you find yourself glowing every time you spend time with this person. This is especially true of women who produce higher levels of oxytocin -- the bonding hormone that enhances the feeling of having found your "soul mate" connection. Any contact with the person becomes as potent as a drug addiction.The female friend told us stories that she just had this video chat with her male friend who lives in London.Almost instinctively, without really looking at each other, my male friend and I said, “Awwwww,” in unison, thinking there must be something behind that. “Is there something wrong with video chatting with a friend of opposite sex?These addictive love chemicals feel so good that it's difficult for you to even imagine ending contact with your friend.Your connection feels genuine and even life-sustaining.In other words, a way to play out fantasies in a safe environment.Hello and welcome to the Relationship-Buddy chat rooms!
Before you are tempted to do something risky -- like leave your stable, good relationship for your exciting emotional lover -- it's important to examine what's really going on. There's a huge difference between a platonic friendship and a friendship that has crossed the line into the emotional sex danger zone.
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In his stimulating paper, "Chatting Is Not Cheating," John Portmann defends online lust and characterizes about sex; he maintains that such talking is more similar to flirting than to having a sexual affair.
In reality, though, the issue of online cheating is more complex—especially when it concerns sexual activities involving actual interaction with other individuals.